ok well...i feel a little bad about calling my mum budget...i didn't go out with my friends today...i went out with my family instead...(don't ask why)...since i'm a little bored...ook...i'm VERY bored, give me some room to blab nonsense for the next ten minutes or so (don't worry khaymar...this may be EDUCATIONAL...hahaha)...

so anyway...today's topic is on: FRIENDS
Why friends? well...since every teenage life revolves basically and mainly on this element. Everywhere we go...friends...everything we do...with friends...happiness comes from...friends...sadness...we go through with friends as well...

don't get me wrong here...i'm NOT a PERFECT friend myself...i have my ups and downs...and yes, i'll have to admit that it's not easy being a perfect friend where you want everyone to like you and you want everything to be as smooth as the ice-skating rink...but in reality...IT'S NOT...let's face it: with PMS and problems and stress, there are bound to be rocky patches in friendships...

There are a few kinds of friendship...1) Those that you'll never forget 2) Those that will come and go...eventually 3) Those that you wish you'll never be in
So...what causes all the friendships above? Seriously...FRIENDS...people like you and me...people that make things happen...

Well...for friendships that you will never forget...it's most likely the very best friend/s that you'll have or had...for example: primary school best friend...(truthfully, you mustn't have more than 3)...after spending 6 yrs (maybe less), it's impossible to shoo the person away...although there will definitely a possibility of the both of you being separated..look at the bright side! the further you guys are apart, the lesser quarrels you guys will have...and when you guys finally get together, you'll never run out of things to talk about!

Friendships that will come and go...usually will happen in secondary school life...for example...2 years together, then a change in class...a change in the circle of friends...and eventually...(sometimes this won't happen) maybe drift apart...2 years obviously isn't enough to really connect and bond with someone...

Friendships that you wish you'll never be in...you must be NUTS to be in here...really...is it even friendship if you're not having fun? Well then, wake up and smell the mocha! why are you in something you wish you're out of? Talk about uncertainty...which means you do not know what you want in a friendship! Firstly...friendship is built with trust, loyalty, care, happiness...and anything positive i can probably think of! Tick off what you think you don't have...if you do not have enough fingers to count what you DON'T have i a friendship...forget it!

So...how do you keep a friendship going? TALK, TALK, AND TALK!! talk to each other, open up...and express your feelings (i know it's difficult...believe me...i've tried it...and i stink!) but after a while, for example, after an argument or a fight...when you've found out the major factor causing such irrational problems, you might learn to spot your mistakes and change for the better...and hopefully improve on the friendship...but the major thing is not to give up totally...everything needs time and patience...DO NOT RUSH...LEARN TO LISTEN and most importantly...LEARN TO BE A FRIEND...because it takes ALOT of practice and dedication :D

Oh well...i think i've babbled enough...hahaha...too much anyway...hahaha...tag me!

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